Wednesday 14 May 2014

#537 Appropriate Behavior Takes Time AND Practice!

     How many people do you know who, no matter what:
1) laugh heartily, 
2) blurt something out,  
3) laugh heartily, then 
4) rush off? 

     Typically there's nothing funny, and they don't stop long enough to hear or understand what you have to say. 
     Is this really supposed to represent meaningful human interaction?

     Do I enjoy a regular daily sitting meditation practice? If not, then in all likelihood, I too lack what it takes to consistently engage - with an open mind-heart - with whomever & whatever the present moment holds.

     See: http://healthyhealers.blogspot.ca/2012/07/introverts-contribute-much-more-than.html 

Cotton Coulson, National Geographic   http://photography.nationalgeographic.com

2 comments:

  1. I so agree with this post. Speech is one of the things we are often less than mindful about -- though the same thing might be said about how we close our office door! I am as prone to lapses as much as the next person, but with practice, it's really not that onerous to be mindful with our speech. I was in a meeting yesterday and the Chair of the meeting was an inspiration. It seemed effortless for her to speak directly to the point, gently and respectfully, without wandering, and with calmness and good humour. That's the kind of influence I enjoy in the world, because her behaviour can help to guide that of others. Thanks again for the post. Kind wishes,
    Dennis

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  2. I agree Dennis - it's wonderful to witness inspiring colleagues - fortunately they ARE around!

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