Now I know that I have a choice first thing in the morning: 1) to become one with (cognitive fusion) speeding-up thoughts OR 2) see them as just thoughts (not reality itself) from an objective, observer perspective (cognitive defusion).
Most of my life I've gone with #1 by default, but I no longer want to be swept away by the momentum of stressful busyness. Now I'm able to choose #2! It's like putting my foot on the clutch, and disengaging from a revving engine. It's quite obvious, and quite wonderful! On the rare occasion when there's something truly stressful coming up in my day, then I focus on meeting that challenge, so more cortisol is appropriately released.
"a flexible adaptation of the CAR to situational demands was associated with positive states & traits (ie low stress, low neuroticism & high happiness). Conversely, a loss of flexibility - which resulted in a level of arousal that was either too low or too high compared to environmental demands - was associated with negative states & traits."
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